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Transference shows up in many ways:

Maybe you only share snippets of your life with your therapist (for fear she'd really get to know who you are and then reject you).
Or you worry that your feelings of wanting your therapist for your very own will get out of hand.
Could it be that merely sitting with your therapist (and feeling exposed) is so overwhelming, just surviving the session is a humongous task.

You've already read that it's normal to feel this way.

And you may be thinking that’s little comfort given that transference is currently hijacking your therapy.

I hear you.

No doubt the ferocity of your feelings have taken you by surprise. Not just the fantasies and obsessive thoughts - worse is the idea you may lose your therapist before you get through.

Did you know that some therapies are ill-suited to dealing with transference – so yes, I can hear you asking, “where does that leave me?”

It’s true – just look on the forums – some people never get through their transference. Therapy is going nowhere. They're stuck and feeling powerless and this can go on for years.

It doesn’t have to be that way. Even in the midst of all that you're dealing with, you can take a more proactive approach to your therapy.

How?

Neuroscience has the answers.

Can you imagine not only feeling better about your therapy, but actually getting really clear about the things that you’re doing now that are helping (and that you can do more of) and those that are slowing you down.

With Therapy Bootcamp, you'll also have the tools from my clinical practice – honed by years of training and working with clients.

You’ll learn to deflate overwhelming feelings,
How to feel safe enough to say what’s on your mind (without self-editing) and,
What you need to do to be sure the relationship with your therapist is a healing experience.
How to control switching from adult mode to child mode and back again

You’ll have these – for both inside and outside your sessions – to move through your transference faster and get your therapy going in the right direction.

Best of all, you’ll get out of your transference what is meant to happen – and avoid the plight of hundreds that never see the end of it.

That’s what this course is all about – giving you the clarity to see what’s blocking your progress.

That way, you’ll be empowered to use therapy to create the life you want. And isn’t that what it’s really about.

“I found your insight immensely helpful and it has enabled me to step back a little and reflect. I was amazed at how much you 'saw' in my short question!”

Jane

Who is this for?

If you feel overwhelmed or powerless because you have no idea how deal with your therapy and it seems to be getting worse...
If you're feeling stuck in your therapy, not sure whether it’s working, or wondering how much longer before you feel results...
If you've developed strong feelings for your therapist (i.e. transference) and you don't know if the feelings are real and whether you should end your therapy...
If you're obsessed with your therapist and it's starting to interfere with your therapy...and your life!
If you’re terrified that your therapist will leave you, even though there's absolutely no reason to think so...
If your therapist seems aloof, distant, uncaring and you can't tell if s/he's really that way or it's just your problem...
If you are unsure whether you can trust your therapist, or even whether s/he is the right one for you...
If you’re too scared to open up or let go in front of your therapist and feel guilty that you're just wasting his time...
If you spend too much time in therapy ‘identifying your emotional wounds’ (and too little time on healing or resolving them)..
If you feel good at the end of your sessions, but start going downhill again a few days afterwards...
If you feel just as bad (or worse!) when you end your sessions as when you started (and have to live with a lot of churned up emotions until the next appt)...
If you’ve come to the realization that even though you've made a few changes you've been feeling worse since you started therapy...
If your therapist wants to refer you to another therapist because he or she doesn't work with transference and now the panic has set in...
If you really want to get through therapy and feel better, if only you knew how...

“Sometimes I’m so freaked out I can’t absorb what my therapist is saying during a session. The podcasts and cheatsheets help me absorb the therapy talk out of session and have given me tools to get myself grounded and feeling safer.”

Emma C.

So with the Therapy Bootcamp you can avoid wasting precious time and become a savvy therapy ‘consumer’ who knows exactly what to do (and what NOT to do) to get the most value for your investment of time and money.

How does it help?

Therapy Bootcamp shows you how therapy works, which interactions with your therapist fosters real change, and how to re-direct strong feelings for your therapist into a positive therapy experience.

“I designed this module to help you stay on track and avoid getting stuck in therapy.
It provides the background understanding to help you to feel less anxious in your sessions & better able to do the work that makes you feel better.

Therapy Bootcamp is based on cutting edge brain science research boiled down into jargon-free tools and insights you can use right now.

Let me show you the simple steps you can take to ease your way through transference - and to boot - with less pain and more control.”

Actionable Steps

Part One: Getting more relief from therapy.

Bring up topics in therapy in ways that are easier to express.
Optimize your time in therapy so you feel better faster.
Spend more time "feeling" (instead of talking about the past).
Take advantage of miscommunications with your therapist.
Work through triggers to transform feelings about yourself.
Get rid of triggers so you can resolve the deeper issues.
Learn how projections impact your feelings toward your therapist.

Part Two: How you feel towards your therapist.

Longing for your therapist - how to ease the pain.
What to do when you can't open up in your sessions.
Why you may have trouble feeling close to your therapist.
How did this (i.e. transference) happen to me?
How to deal with anger towards your therapist.
What to do when you're struggling to let go emotionally in front of your therapist.
Dealing with lingering negative transference from your former therapist.
How to handle your therapist's boundary slippage (countertransference) and cope with your own transference.

And Finally...

Transference Exercises: How to move through transference with more comfort and less heartache using time-tested, brain-wise techniques from neuroscience. So you too can get results like others have before you.

All posts are interactive. You can leave comments and interact with other members of the community. Bootcamp members are entitled to free Webinars and discounts on all myShrink products. Over a dozen friendly emails guide you through the content summarizing what'll get from each lesson.

Coming Soon:

How to get rid of feeling that you're wasting your therapist's time.
How to stop obsessing that your therapist will leave you.

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with the Bootcamp you'll have the tools for dealing with any kind of emotion and how to use these tools for better than ever therapy.

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What's included?

Eight downloadable Cheat Sheets (Total value: $236)

1
Grounding Technique channels pent-up energy so you can stay connected to important feelings. (Value: $19)
2
C&C Strategies for feeling safe, not vulnerable. (Value: $19)
3
Free Fall Technique for getting out of freeze mode: numb, spacey or checked out. (Value: $33)
4
Rest & Remedy move from crisis/anxious/stress mode back to your Comfort Zone. (Value: $33)
5
Getaway Move for fidgety, frantic and panic moods. (Value: $33)
6
Releasing Anger Toolkit when you're frustrated, grumpy or angry. (Value: $33)
7
Powering Up Your Imagination for deep healing and deactivating negative memories. (Value: $33)
8
BONUS: Connected Centering Technique - stay connected to your core self in the face of emotional challenges. Includes 'Triggered by Faces' Quiz (Value: $33)
9
Much more...including introductory videos.

“I had my session with my T. before she goes on vacation...So here I am the next day after my session and I feel mostly fine. No heartache or longing. Old me would still be in tears and not know why...This is HUGE progress for me.”

Samantha

GUARANTEED SATISFACTION

I give you my 60-day Unconditional Guarantee of satisfaction. I’m confident that you’ll find Therapy Bootcamp informative, eye-opening and engaging.

I’ve designed these modules so you can get the most out of your therapy experience.

However, if you don’t feel like you’re getting the value you expected, or if you’re just not able to follow through on these brain-wise solutions no matter how hard you try, then just email us within 60 days and we’ll refund your purchase, no questions asked.

Guaranteed Results? It's up to you.

P.S. I believe that once you know what makes psychotherapy (and therapists) tick it’s so much easier to do therapy and get the results you want!

Considering the amount of time and energy you put into your therapy – especially if you’re paying out of pocket – you deserve to get the most out of your efforts.

I want you to succeed and I’ve put everything I’ve learned over the years (as a therapist and as a client) into this module so you can focus on the areas that will give you the best results, feel better sooner and live your life the way you want.

And isn’t that the goal after all?

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